ENVELOPE

Envelope must be presented at the start of our encounter. Please place the envelope on the bathroom counter. If we are meeting in a public place, you may put it inside a gift bag, book, or greeting card.

LATENESS

Life can get busy, and I am happy to accommodate a 15-minute grace period. Please let me know if you are stuck in traffic, or running late. Lateness that is more than 30 minutes with no communication will be treated as no-show.  

HYGIENE

Good hygiene makes a gentleman extra charming. A quick shower is mandatory when you arrive, and please come neatly groomed. Mouthwash will be prepared. 

ALCOHOL

I do not consume alcohol when meeting a gentleman for the first time, though you may consume alcohol if you wish. If we’ve met before, I’m happy to share some light alcohol. I have a low alcohol tolerance, and for this reason I do not attend dates that involve heavy-drinking activities, such as clubbing and partying. 

SCREENING

Every gentleman must pass screening before meeting me in person. This is a necessary step to ensure my safety. Screening terms are non-negotiable. I require two submissions from the following:

ID
Driver’s License
Passport
Government ID

Provider Reference
2 references from reputable providers that you’ve met with in the last 6 months; name, email address, website 

Employment Verification
LinkedIn profile with 200+ connection and a profile picture
Email address connected to a company domain (not Gmail, Yahoo mail, etc.)
Work badge 

Two submissions should be one each from two different categories, for example, ID + Provider Reference, or ID + Employment. I do not accept two IDs, or two employment verifications.

If the information given is not enough for screening purposes, I will reach out to you for more. For first-time gentlemen, an ID plus proof of employment will be adequate.

PRIVACY

Every encounter is a sweet little secret between the both of us. Rest assured that I handle all communication myself and your information will be deleted once the screening process is complete.

REVIEWS

I hope you value my privacy as much as I value yours. Since I live a full life and have a full-time career outside of my time as Lily, please refrain from discussing our encounters publicly in an abusive way. Mutual respect is the foundation to a perfect date and long-lasting friendship. 

SELFIES

I do not show my face, or send selfies.

DEPOSITS AND CANCELLATIONS

Sometimes I might fly across the ocean to make our date happen. Deposits are necessary to guard against no-shows. Please read through my deposit requirements and cancellation policy thoroughly on my consideration page before inquiring. I do not negotiate these terms.

REFERENCE

I am happy to provide you with a reference, if we have met for 2+ times, or longer than 6 hours within the last 6 months. Please let me know before listing my name.